Shy men and dating
Of course, he will question this over and over in his mind, questioning whether you were asking him to hang out just to be good friends, or if you wanted something more.
Show him that you want something more – ask repeatedly.
The bigger the accomplishment, the more your convo feels like 20 questions.6.
And you’re constantly learning crazy huge chunks of information about him. He’ll also ask you things no one else ever thought to. Because he’s not the type to interject a lot (or, at all), bigger group settings make him seem like all he’s secretly roasting everyone in his head between every silent, polite nod.
But then you’ll remember that lots of men think lots of arbitrary crap is masculine, like overly-hoppy craft beer or wearing boat shoes with socks. He shows his love in way more practical, personal ways.
Sure, he won’t go on and on about how hot you are all the time (which isn’t even indicative of a great guy, tbh).
You know he can’t make a move and it will be hard for you both to realize your possible love story. When you discover yourself brought in to a shy guy is to question your feelings for him, the very first thing to do.
The dreaded ~silent moments~ are actually fucking wonderful.
He will, however, snag limited tickets to a concert you’d otherwise forget about because you were too swamped at work.
All of that on TOP of telling you he loves you, in that charmingly timid way of his.15. You know him getting stuttery around you or getting so nervous that he actually falls UP a staircase (like my boyfriend did on our first date, true story) just means he is full of the warmest feelings for you. You’re with him because, deep down, you’re probably a little shy too.
Be careful about how much (and which) initiative you take.
There is no measurable or basic policy right here, as his limit for humiliation will vary in proportion to his shyness and his pride, which are different in every man. Well, for beginners, in the early stages, you will certainly need to give him outright signs of your interest.