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You’ve dated a long line of losers—deadbeats, cheaters, manipulators.They all belonged to your racial group, so you figure you’ll have better luck dating someone of a different race.There are a number of reasons not to date interracially, including for social status, because it’s trendy or to remedy a rocky love life.Dating interracially with misguided motives will inevitably lead to problems. It has been a struggle, but at the end of it all I ended up realizing that racial identity has been made complicated when in reality it doesn’t have to be. I’ve experienced a lot of self-doubt and lacked the ability to identity with how I feel inside in comparison to how others feel I should look like and act like.That means all of the above (and the list coming below) is a big no-no for me, especially within the first five minutes of meeting me.When people call me "exotic" as if it's a compliment, it's not — it’s a blatant act of othering.
I understand that most of the time, it's completely unintentional.
So what is complicated about being mulatto isn’t being mulatto itself, it is complicated because society makes it so.
Society hasn’t always been satisfied with me being half-and-half; it demands that I identify with just one, but I refuse to do that.
” And “You don’t talk black” I mean the list goes on and on.
I love being bi-racial, I take pride in it and feel very lucky to have heritage that stems from two completely different directions, but it took many years to achieve this level of confidence, because when strangers, family and friends come at you repeatedly with comments such as “You act very white,” “You don’t seem black.“ “You date too many white guys” or “You wear your hair too straight” back to “Why don’t you straighten your hair?