Four bases of dating

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The four relationship bases When you’re talking to your partner it’s a lot easier to describe your level of sexual experience by using bases.

You should know there is no official definition for what each base represents. First base is kissing *including French kissing*, maybe some fingers through the hair, but nothing really extreme.

If you need additional details on this, try to read more at Date and Simple.

If you have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend before, then, of course, the “bases” is just a myth that’s been floating around school. I’m not sure why we use baseball metaphors for sex but we do.

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It can be a little confusing at first to remember everything for each base.The first base is about building up an emotional connection – it should be sweet and harmless. Second base is a level up from the first base; it involves French kissing but this time it is a step-up, which often involves grasping and touching at the breast, chest, and any part of the body above the waist.This stage becomes a little intense and hot for both of you. The third base is almost closer to home base; if you are open to this phase, it’ll be easy for you to get into this base – oral sex.Also, you can ask your partner, so that way you both are on the same page. Before you two go hitting up bases, make sure you both know that this is what you want.Also, make sure both of you are consenting and understand where the boundaries are.

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