Fetish dating web sites
Try Collarspace.com, large dating site, and Fetlife.com, the latter will give you information about local events as well , amongst other things.
Be careful, a lot of ignorant people and some scammers on Collar Space. Fetlife is more like facebook for kinksters, with a lot of bells and whistles.
If you are a dominant the odds are less daunting, though still against you.
Go to events to learn techniques and develop a reputation in the community as a safe player and a decent guy.
(Dominant does not = asshole.) Once you build that reputation the women will come to you.
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Do your research, tons of reviews show that and AFF are scams. The majority of the people there already have someone and are not "looking for love." There are a zillion more males than females on all these sites, frankly.
The biggest shame as Alt.com/AFF bought and closed it down. Many other sites follow this model, like Femdom Dating, which also fills your mailbox with messages trying to get you to pay so you can read them. So if you are much over 30 you may not generate much interest. It too is mainly younger people, but many appear to be real and there is a large number with dating profiles. And if you are a submissive male there are 10 zillion for every eligible female.
The biggest fetish/BDSM community, fetlife, isn't a dating site and there is not a search engine designed to find matches. I'm young, fit, everything good, but I don't know where to advertise myself where my type of women will see me.Once you pay, none of those people actually reply to any effort you make to contact them. In other words, 100% fake plants that the site employs to make people believe it is an active and successful site.Worst of all, claims to be a BDSM site, and yet if you are a submissive looking for a dominant the majority of people they "match" you to are also submissives who are looking for dominant partners.if you are a submissive male, your first experiences will almost certainly be with professionals.There are few dominant women and many submissive men and the odds are incredibly against you.