Dating websites and self esteem
While there are no official statistics, it’s believed that around 4.5 million Australians use online or app dating each year, according to Relationships Australia.
Dating app Tinder boasts 15% of the Australian population as users – making it the second-most preferred way to meet a new partner (the first being introduced by friends or family).
The researchers concluded that dating apps may be contributing to the worsening mental health of some users.
Relationships counsellor Nicole Ivens advises to be mindful of how you’re feeling.
Heather Millar & Charmaine Yabsley June 2018 It appears that fewer single people are meeting through friends, on blind dates, at work, or a chance get-together.
Thanks to technology, you don’t even have to leave your sofa to connect with other singles.
But through it all I came to see dating apps as an opportunity; stepping-stones for the meek of us, first ports of call for wallflowers like me, who learned to live with eyes on the ground when we’d rather wear hearts on our sleeves.
“You’re constantly rejecting somebody, or being rejected, with just a swipe on your phone.
You may have a great rapport over text messages, but when you meet them in person, you realise how false it has been.” Simpson says that many online daters also date multiple people at once.
There was no eureka moment in my muddling forays into online dating.
Indeed, Tinder continued to pair me with people I didn’t suit and who didn’t suit me. In time, I came to realize this was the world now: romance in LCD form; a confused, head-scratching sea of open-ended questions and frequent disappointment. It was better to keep going., remembered how easily one could read into the vast silence of digital space and believe each swipe right would inevitably be seen and met with a dismissive left, to conclude that a date that went badly was a date failed.