Dating a smart girl
Maybe you find yourself lying next to each other on a beach under a starry night, and getting into a long discussion about mythology, the cosmos and whether or not there is life on other planets.
Or maybe you’re at a museum, and you both see a piece of art so beautiful that you have to talk about the reaction it stirs in the two of you.
If she’s shallow, superficial and not too bright, it’s going to make connecting with her on an emotional level more difficult.
This is not a dig on girls being dumb or less intelligent than men — not by a long shot.
There is still a primal element to being with a woman, and physical attraction will never go away (thank god), but the luxury of being a human being is that we have access to complex ideas and emotions.
We may have sex like animals, but our modes of courtship are a lot different.
Feel things out, and try to form a bond no matter what from the beginning.
For some reason, guys think that the less deep or intellectual a woman is, the more susceptible she is to their advances.
A challenging conversation with a woman that takes a little bit of brain power to traverse, is better than a shallow, intellectually bankrupt one because it isn’t small talk.
There’s nothing worse on a date, for both guy and girl than spending two hours talking about work or something you saw on the news.
In this case, it’s not a huge stretch that guys might assume that the bimbo archetype is somehow easier to game or be on a date with.
It would seem that way, but when you actually go out with a lot of different girls, you’ll find that the opposite is true.