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“He doesn’t consider my needs and I feel so alone.” If you want your partner to change, start by accepting them for who they are. John Gottman says, “People can change only if they feel that they are basically liked and accepted the way they are.

We are responsible for how our words and actions make our partner feel.

Apologize to your partner by taking responsibility for the problem, even just a small piece, and this will validate their feelings, promote forgiveness, and allow you both to move on. Gottman explains that criticizing your partner is one of The Four Horsemen that predicts divorce.

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